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 Recently
some sad news shocked the nation. Two teenagers commited suicide.
They were only high school students. An investigation revealed that they were bullied
in school. Although we are only in elementary school or junior high
school, there are still bullies. As a matter of fact, bullies are
everywhere. How should we deal with bullies? Not many know the answer
because they don’t think such horrible things will happen
to them. Well, you never know. So, let’s learn a few ways to protect ourselves.
Surround Yourself with Friends
School is a place where many different kids come to study. At school,
there are many different characters. Some are outgoing, some are shy,
and some are violent. The first thing you need to remember is that
you have to accept the fact that you must co-exist and mingle with
kids that aren’t similar to you. Simply put, try to be everyone’s
friend. Bullies tend to pick on a kid who is left out of the circle.
Don’t be that kid. Have a good relationship with everyone. Bullies
may look stronger and more powerful. However, that isn’t the case.
They only pick on the weak. When you have many friends surrounding
you, bullies will leave you alone.
 Do
Not Become a Bully’s Friend
As kids we are easily intimidated. Yes, sometimes we follow and do the same things
our friends do. There’s a saying that you can tell a person’s character
by looking at his or her friends. This is very true. Being friendly
to everyone is a good thing. However, if your friend is doing something
wrong, you shouldn’t do the same. Have the courage to speak up and tell
your friend that he or she is wrong. Kids tend to follow the stronger
friend or crowd in the circle. Do not
be a part of it. This will only turn you into a bully as well. Do
you like to make fun of other kids? Put yourself in their shoes. Being
a bully doesn’t always mean you are violent or verbally abusive. If you are trying
to be a part of a certain group that ignores the unpopular kids,
you are no different than a bully.
 Don’t
Let Things Get to You
Everyone gets made fun of at one time or another during
school years. Even the most popular kid in school has
his or her embarrassing moments. This is all part
of growing up. Of course sometimes you will feel sad or angry. But
don’t let such things get to you. Learn to laugh about it. The moment
you start becoming emotional, you will quickly
lose your confidence. This is like
sinking in quicksand. The more you think
about it, the deeper you will fall. Bullying is something you can’t
change. It will always be around. Luckily, you have the power to ignore
it. Move on with your school life. Make lots of friends, be active,
and study hard. Keep yourself in one piece, and understand that you
are the one in control of yourself. Keep
your head up high. The more you
look sad and weak, the more bullies and their friends will bother you. Have confidence
in yourself. Be yourself, and be proud. Believe me, bullies will soon
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