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 Making
other people happy makes you happy, too! You can make your friends
feel good by saying something nice to them. Everyone loves getting
a hearty compliment. So, how can you
compliment your friends effectively to make them
feel really special? Keep reading and learn!
Sometimes people say something nice to you to get something from you
or to cheat you. But such sweet talk doesn’t make you
feel special, does it? Only sincere compliments can make
people feel great. You can make your loved ones feel wonderful by
giving them compliments effectively!
In order to make a hearty
compliment to your friends, try to appreciate who they really
are. True friends try to understand each other. They try not to criticize each other even
when things go wrong. Do not try to change
them the way you want them to be.
When you give someone a compliment, do not think about the things
you will get in return. Do not expect anything and give
the person the freedom to respond any way he or she
like. The only reward you should seek is - knowing that you
made someone feel wonderful.
 When you
give a compliment, do not give compliments on superficial things such as
their looks and new clothes. Instead, choose to compliment
them on something they did or a choice they made. Giving someone a
compliment on something they’ve done means you really care about them.
Another important thing to remember is this: give a compliment on
something that you really admire. Then, your friends
will feel really special and appreciative of your comment. If you choose to
compliment something that you should admire or something you think
other people will admire, they will notice that you don’t mean
it.
Sometimes making an unexpected compliment can
make your friends really happy. For example, sending them an unexpected
mail can make them feel wonderful. Print out a picture of your
friend and write a note to tell him
or her specifically how special
he or she is! |
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